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ONE-TO-ONE COACHING
A Ten Step Coaching Journey

For the Man Who Wants to Get Himself Back

or Find Himself for The First Time

For too long, men have been conditioned to carry responsibility without expressing what is happening beneath the surface — what they really feel: vulnerability, sadness, grief, worry, stress, fear, and anxiety. Carrying shame, judgement, and a sense of perceived failure, many men stay silent and alone.

Yet the truth is this: silence costs lives. Suicide in men is at an all-time high.

Men Who Thrive is about changing the old beliefs of the past — beliefs held by men, and often reinforced by women — about how a man should be. It is about letting go of expectations that were internalised in childhood and carried throughout life, and returning to who a man really is — and who he has the potential to become.

This is not about achievement or success in its many forms.

It is about being at ease in your own skin, in your own life.

This is not therapy.
This is not a quick fix.

It is a journey back to who you truly are — or to the person you are yet to realise.

Here we will UNCOVER the strengths and qualities- your truth- that have always been within you, while also bringing awareness to the unconscious beliefs, old patterns, and internal stories that continue to shape how you think, act, and see yourself today.

 

These stories live within your Inner Child, Inner Adolescent, and Historical Adult (adult of the past) and they still influence and drive how you live your life now; in your relationships, in the workplace and in life itself.

 

You will RECOVER the parts of you that have been lost, the parts of your self you gave away or had taken from you through the rules, expectations and judgments of others.

 

This includes what you took responsibility for, what you blamed yourself for, and what you came to believe about who you are. It also brings awareness to what you now believe about your Inner Child, Inner Adolescent, and Historical Adult — beliefs that continue to keep you trapped within yourself.

These beliefs often show up as patterns: remaining in toxic relationships, fear of failure, carrying the weight of responsibility, and living under expectations placed on you by others — or the ones you place upon yourself.

And you will DISCOVER the man you truly are beneath the conditioning, pressure, and self-doubt — allowing you to let go of old habits, step into your personal power, and move forward with self-confidence, self-belief and self-respect.

From this place, you are able to create the life you choose-consciously, authentically and on your own terms.

This process is called  THE SELF-REINTEGRATION SYSTEM- Becoming Whole and Letting Go. It is process which puts you back together, changes the way you think and feel about yourself and gives you the tools to create a different way of living.

 

As your self- awareness grows, so does your confidence, self-worth and self-belief.

 

It is more than a practical tool, it is a shift in thinking and a change in how you live.  Created to help manage fear, anxiety, and getting you back from those dark places, this process becomes part of how you function, how you assess situations, regulate your inner world, and respond with strength, and clarity. This process is not only a tool for healing and personal development; it is a way to build profound self-awareness that informs every day aspects of your life.

Men Who Thrive

This ten-session journey is not ongoing therapy. It is a structured, powerful, and results-driven process designed to help you Uncover, Recover, and Discover the man you have the potential to be — your authentic self. The you that has been hidden beneath stress, pressure, loneliness and expectations.

This is for you if…

  • You feel lost, stuck, or unsure which way to turn.

  • You’re overwhelmed, burnt out, and exhausted from carrying too much responsibility — but don’t feel able to share that with those closest to you.

  • You criticise and judge yourself harshly, and it’s leaving you drained, disconnected and avoidant.

  • You know you want to live differently — you once had hopes and dreams, but don’t know how to reach them.

  • You’re ready to find yourself again, realise your potential, and step into your authentic self with confidence, self- belief and self-worth.

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This is not just coaching.
It’s a reset. A reclaiming. A return to the man you were always meant to be.

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About Men Who Thrive

My name is Sharon McKenna-Daniels

For over twenty years, I have worked as a therapist supporting men and women through stress, trauma, and life’s most difficult challenges. Much of my work has been with and around men — in the police service, in occupational health (including the NHS), within companies, and in private practice.

I have specialised in the area of work-related stress for many years and am well aware of its devastating consequences. Again and again, I have witnessed the heavy weight that men carry in silence.

So often, men are expected to “be strong” while hiding their pain. Work-related stress, burnout, anxiety, and pressure to perform become

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overwhelming. Yet the shame of admitting struggle, or the fear of being seen as weak, keeps men locked inside their own heads. Too many suffer in silence. Too many feel alone. And tragically, for some, this silence becomes unbearable — the alarming statistic of suicide among men- of all ages- has become one of the greatest challenges of our time.

It was while working with men that I developed the Inner Mentor Guidance System — a process born from my observations of what men most needed: a way to step back from the harsh inner critic, to hear their own truth, and to find a grounded, compassionate way forward.

Over the years, I have been asked by both men and women to create a space just for men. At first, I ran mixed workshops, but I soon realised that the depth of sharing required wasn’t always possible for men in that setting. So I created Women Who Thrive. But the call from men never went away. And now, in response to both my long history of working with men and the growing need for dedicated support, I have designed Men Who Thrive — a one-to-one coaching journey specifically for men.

This work is not about therapy in the traditional sense. It is about giving men a safe, structured, and deeply empowering process to reconnect with themselves. It’s about breaking the silence, dismantling shame, and finding strength in truth rather than in suppression.

Men Who Thrive exists because no man should feel he has to carry everything alone.

Here, you are not judged. You are not told to “man up.” You are given the space, tools, and guidance to face what you’ve been carrying — and to rebuild, reclaim, and rise into the man you were always meant to be.

Why I created Men Who Thrive (more)...

The Inner Child, Adolescent and Historical Adult

THE SELF REINTEGRATION SYSTEM:

A JOURNEY TO YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF

Self Reintegration System
BECOMING YOUR BEST YOU AND LETTING GO

 

A TEN STEP COACHING JOURNEY:

 

PART ONE: UNCOVER

 

WHO YOU ARE V's WHO YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE

 

Session 1.
History Taking
-Time-Line 0-13 (Child)
Time-Line 13-Early 20's (Adolescent)
-Time-Line Early 20's- Present (Adulthood)


 

Session 2.
The Words in Your Head​
-The Origins of Your Inner Dialogue:
-The Fear-Based Environment
-Hopes, Dreams and The Stories you tell your self
-Tools: Managing Worry, Stress and Anxiety

Session 3.
The Inner Demons
-Your Inner Critic, Judge, Perfectionist and Saboteur
-Fears, Phobias and 'Failure'
-Fear-Based Thoughts
-Changing the Dialogue
-Tools: Stopping the Internal Dialogue
-Tools: Self Reintegration System: The Observer

 

Session 4.
Messages from Childhood
-The Messages that Shaped You
-The Relationship with Your Self
-Driven by the Inner Child and Adolescent
-Tools: Self Reintegration System: Loving Presence
-Tools: Managing Activation 


 

Session 5.
Who You Take With You Everywhere You Go
-Toxic Relationship
-Your Relationship with Authority Figures
-Identifying the Triggers 
-Identifying the Red Flags
-Identifying Masks and Personas- Yours and 'Theirs' 
-Tools: Self-Reintegration System: The Body Guard


 
PART TWO: RECOVER

 

RECOVERY AND RECONNECTION

 

Session 6.
The Inner Child, Adolescent, Historical Adult and You
-Reconnection, Forgiveness and Reconciliation with your Inner Child,
Adolescent and Historical Adult
-Tools: Visualisation Exercises


 

Session 7.
Healing the Past
-Childhood Wounds
-A New Relationship with your self
-The Voice of the Child
-Reintegration of the Child
-Tools: Visualisation- Rescuing the Child


 

Session 8.
Healing the Past
-Validation and Respect for the Adolescent
-The Voice of the Adolescent
-A Different Relationship
-Reintegration of the Adolescent
-Tools: Visualisation- Rescuing the Adolescent


 

Session 9.
Healing Adult Wounds 
-A Voice for Your Historical Adult
-Letting Go of Patterns and Limiting Beliefs
-Reintegration of the Historical Adult
-Tools: Letting go


 

PART THREE: DISCOVER-

 

BECOMING YOUR BEST YOU AND LETTING NOTHING STOP YOU

 

Session 10.
Your Future Self
-Clarifying Purpose and Vision for your Life
-Your Personal Mission Statement
-Integration of Past Present and Future Selves
-Connecting with Your Authentic Presence
-Creating Quiet Sovereignty 

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THE MEN WHO THRIVE COACHING PACKAGES

1

FOUNDATION

A guided journey with steady support

🔹 10 x 1-hour private coaching sessions (via Zoom or in person)

🔹 Initial 30-minute discovery call

🔹 Email support between    sessions

🔹 Personalised resources and  journaling tools

🔹 Weekly reflection prompts to deepen your process

🔹 Optional additional            sessions if needed

🔹 Flexible scheduling: sessions typically every 2 weeks, but tailored to your needs

 

Investment: £1,500 or 3 x £500

2

THE TRANSFORMATIONAL

Deeper support for profound emotional healing

Everything in the Foundation package, plus:

🌟 Voice notes support between sessions (for real-time check-ins, insights, reassurance, and reflection)

🌟 Increased personalisation of tools and journaling practices

🌟 Deeper responsiveness and flexibility throughout your journey

🌟 Mid-session phone call check-ins if needed for emotional processing or breakthroughs

🌟 A more held, connected experience — like having a coach in your corner as life unfolds

Investment: £1,750 or 4 x £437

3

BESPOKE

A fully tailored journey with maximum flexibility and depth
Recommended after completing a package or for men at a significant crossroads

🌙 Custom number of sessions to meet your needs

🌙 Designed in collaboration with you

🌙 Includes the same deep-level support as the Transformational package

🌙 Ideal for transition periods (divorce, career change, work-related stress, grief, life reset)

Price: Upon enquiry

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